Does your boyfriend make a lot of excuses? Do you Find yourself justifying his excuses?

Many times Excuses mean he isn’t interested in you. I’m sure you are wondering, why doesn’t he just tell he’s not interested instead of stringing her along?

Because he doesn’t want to hear you cry, whine, yell or even worse, he fears you may be a crazy one and want to kill him. So instead of telling you the truth, he strings you along.  Is this right, no.  But the latter for him is worse.  So what does he do? He avoids your calls, doesn’t make himself available, is always busy, etc.  You don’t get the message because you believe that he is still interested since he didn’t come right out and tell you that he isn’t.  What happens?  You make excuses and since you want this relationship to work you convince yourself that all of his excuses are the truth.  You have convinced yourself that the reason for all of his excuses is definitely not because he doesn’t like you.

Well, let me tell you something If a guy isn’t calling you when he says he will, or making sure you know that he’s dating you, then you already have your answer. Stop making excuses for him, his actions are screaming the truth:  He’s just not that into you.

Move on!  Cut your losses and don’t waste your time.  Why stay in a weird dating situation when there are tons (and I mean tons) of other prospective candidates out there who will appreciate you for you. 

Why Do Women Accept the EXCUSES men give?

Because they have convinced themselves that there is something there with this guy.  They think that since he called them out of the blue or he finally responded to their text messages they believe this is a sign that he likes them.

Here’s the truth:  Having a relationship that you are continuously unsure if you are dating or not is not a relationship.  Making excuses for his excuses will keep you in an unsatisfying state of mind.

It’s time to stop fooling yourself.  You definitely deserve more.  You deserve to have the exact relationship that you want.

If you find yourself experiencing excuses from a man or find yourself in an uncertain relationship it’s good to hire yourself a relationship coach.  A relationship coach can guide you and direct you into the arms of someone who appreciates and loves you. 

As a relationship coach, I have spent years working with clients helping them to realize that they don’t have to accept excuses.  They are better than that.  I’d love to work with you.  Set up a FREE Dating Strategy session and let’s see how we can get you the love life you desire.

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